My body’s physiology is something I am very tuned into

Yes, I have experienced emotional anguish – you know this, I’ve not hidden it. Recently I joined a writing group because I know I have a lot to say – much more to say – to you. Yes, You. It’s not that I neglect you or don’t sit with you, I have been having trouble opening up to you – fully, Authentically. Because for some people who hurt – that’s not so easy to do. And I really want you to understand that I understand you.

The group I joined provides writing prompts, and often poems flow about. I will be the first to admit I was never a big fan of poetry – in fact the very first piece I published on Medium was about not being a fan or a writer. But for some reason it flows out of me rather easily. I appear to need a nudge from a support person saying that it’s safe to do. I joined the group in hopes that I will become my own provider and feel the safety and express my self – to you.

And in fact – as far back as 2016 I was publishing my feelings on Medium.com. And my assignment in group this week is to share – share something new or old, borrowed or beloved. So I am sharing with you something I published in 2016, as I was emerging from my wounded pit.

the lines are well defined

those that can be seen

in front of her eyes

my breath labored and

my heart is fast paced

Alert this is to that pain

Pain Pain go away

and find yourself a new way

it doesn’t have to be so

rapid heart and relaxed breath

now that is something to see

For she has reached a new stage

one she feels comfortable preaching upon

and erase the lines and focus on thine eyes

and feel the present from each new day

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I was learning to feel in my body what I was experiencing in my life. You often hear me talk about physiology – it seems to be my drive. My body’s physiology is something I am very tuned into, always have been – but now for real for real tuned in. Because I did climb out from that pit, and I staked my claim on the ground, intentionally, to imprint my steps for you to find.

 

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Accomplishments

Recently a friend of mine posted on his facebook page a list of his accomplishments, to impress that doing so is not an act of selfishness. I read his list and was so inspired that I went on to my personal page and created my own list. It was easy, I rolled it out in a few minutes. Then – I must have read that list I don’t even know how many times. Even I swelled up. I am very proud of myself. Why did I read it over and over? Because I felt excitement with my list. No feelings of being braggy or dramatic, no discomfort, nothing awkward feeling, no guilt, no need to hide anything. In fact I smiled – hard. And the thing about my list is these are my accomplishments – on the side. I did a lot of these things while in school, while working full time, and with many personal projects going.

Some moments (days, weeks, episodes) in life can be dreary. And too often it’s easy to focus on the icky stuff, even thinking we have to be better, or just get through it.

What if you wrote out your list today, and shared it with your most personal circle of friends?

When is the last time you invited someone to honor you – just because?

How do you think you’ll be received? What’s keeping you from writing it? Sharing it? How do you feel when you read your list? If you’re having trouble writing your list, it’s time to explore the reasons why you are struggling. I invite you to have a conversation with me about making your list.

UNADJUSTEDNONRAW_thumb_2aa6.jpg Here’s my accomplishments list:

– I was a professional Polynesian dancer for 13 years
– I was a dj, have built stages and did lighting and sound for touring bands – in small venues, and also for concerts at stadiums
– I taught intrapersonal skills at UofMD for 7 years
– I taught adults a trade and was nationally recognized as an expert in my field for 5 years
– I delivered my nephew
– I broke my physical body in half (literally and unintentionally) and taught myself how to walk again
– I owned and operated a spa/wellness center
– my Spa had a 5 star rating and was recognized and published in a national magazine. Also won best of Baltimore awards 2 years in a row
– I overcame abuse, PTSD and victimhood and now I teach others how to do it for themselves
– I completely changed my life, started over from nothing after a traumatic life experience
– I have mentored survivors from abuse, trafficking
– I found my purpose in life
– I have been given a second chance at life and I’m making the most of it
– animals are my children
– I have repaired strained familial relationships
– I work in the healing arts and I help people change their lives
– I am an Ordained Priest
– I communicate with the other side
– I have slept in about 40 of the domestic United States
– I once exclusively spent a New Years eve with the New York ballet company

( Please feel free to share yours )  

Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises

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TRE® is mentioned in this months O magazine, and though only one community is mentioned, I want you to understand that TRE® isn’t exclusive to victims, its for everyone (when you come to my classes you will hear me talk about why you too need TRE® in your life. Or you can call me and I’ll tell you why). But this prominent mention is a great start, and the TRE® community is very, very grateful for bringing TRE® into the Light.

I have my own reasons for why I chose to become trained in teaching, educate about, and obtain the proper credentials to become a TRE® Certified Facilitator. Releasing the charged energies that are stored in our spinal column and central nervous system, and in our fascia (connective tissue) – is an important process for Whole Health and Wellness. I hear from many that my passion for this modality really shines through.

Here are a few reasons why I am so passionate about TRE®, and how you may come to understand the why behind the all of my services. TRE® experiences and results – both mine and others – are a big part of the integration process and why I choose to teach TRE® and offer whole of life guidance sessions:

The spine supports the entire structure of the human body, both in the physical world and the communication world. Our central nervous system runs through the spinal cord and there are a number of energy points aligned with specific vertebrae, which react to negative influences in our life and may bring about illness or malfunction in the spine or other areas within the body.

The state of our spine also reflects the state of our relationship with the world. As we involve ourself in negative situations, these energy node points respond to this, and begin to impact on the physical body as discomfort or pain. Prolonged exposure to negative energy means more damage and possible impairment.

TRE® brings about the rebalancing of the nervous system, and fascia, as well as the emotional and mental state of being. Some even argue that spiritually healing occurs and so a higher vibration can be accomplished from unlocking, releasing, and redirecting the neurological messages from negativity, trauma (injury and surgical procedures – physical) and emotional release from the body’s intelligence for letting go of what does not serve the individual.

Fascia represents a persons connection with their mind, body, and spirit – or, everything that is. When your fascia is blocked, scarred, adhered, too loose or too tight, your connection to your universal life is out of balance and blocked. Movement – emotional or physical – can be limited or completely lacking. In response to your thoughts, fears and physical traumas, instead of supporting you, your fascia becomes a restriction.

I believe that there is an ideal version of each one of us that exists as a reality for us to choose. Once you do TRE® – even if just once – you are forever changed. You have successfully taught the body to know how to heal itself, and that memory will always be accessible. The difference in practicing TRE® once vs. committing to a routine practice – especially if done with intention – is about releasing all the traumas that have been placed upon us across all of our lifetimes, in all dimensions and across all timelines – on an ongoing basis. Because every day is a new experience, with a new set of experiences to process, and overcome.

I offer private sessions, as well as group classes -at multiple locations. If you are ready to experience Whole of Life change – schedule with me now at https://LKCEPC.10to8.com

 

 

 

Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises

May – Group Classes:

  • at Nourishing Journey Thursdays May 2nd, and May 30th at 10 am
  • at Truth Mind Body – A Wellness Center Sunday May 5th at 1 pm

 

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I am exploring the possibilities for the best day and time to provide classes:

  • I invite you to click here to tell me what day and time you are able to attend classes at Nourishing Journey.
  • I invite you to click here to tell me what day and time you are able to attend classes at Ruscombe Mansion Community Health Center.